Well there are no "afters" of the cats yet but I can report that since the introduction of Feliway, we've had but two minor incidents of hissing, but no full-on fights. I'll keep you posted. But in the meantime, here's an "after" of the hair:
I'm a career Youth Ministry Coordinator, now serving as a Pastoral Ministry Managers in the largest Collaborative in the Boston area...married to the Best YM in the Archdiocese. On my office bulletin board, an illustration from St. Joseph's Baltimore Catechism shows two boys wearing baseball mitts looking out a window. One says "Too bad it's raining." The other replies, "When we accept things like this from God without complaining, it helps to clean the selfishness out of our souls."
That just cracks me up.